Polyamory is the practice of having consensual romantic or sexual relationships with more than one person at the same time. This is what many coin as an “open relationship.”  Unlike cheating, all parties involved in a polyamorous relationship are aware of and agree to the dynamic. It is based on principles of honesty, communication, and mutual respect. Polyamory challenges the traditional idea that romantic love must be exclusive to just one person, offering an alternative structure that can work well for many people.

Successful polyamorous relationships have clear and open communication before the decision is made, not after one person has already cheated and now seeks an “open” relationship. People in these relationships often prioritize emotional transparency, setting boundaries, and frequent check-ins with their partners. This structure can actually encourage a deeper level of self-awareness and intentional relationship-building than some traditional monogamous relationships. Polyamory does not mean a lack of commitment to your partner; it just means that sex and commitment may be shared with more than one person at a time.

For many, having an open relationship is simply a more natural fit for how they experience love and connection. Just as some people are wired for monogamy, others thrive in environments where they can build emotional or romantic bonds with multiple people. This does not mean one model is better or worse than the other, it just highlights the diversity of human relationships. What is crucial is that all relationships are built on consent and respect, regardless of their structure.

It is okay to be polyamorous because people deserve the freedom to love in ways that feel authentic to them. It is for no one to judge or criticize. Your sexual desires are yours and who you choose to share them with. As long as everyone involved agrees and feels safe and valued, polyamory is a valid, ethical choice. Like all relationship styles, it comes with challenges but with care and communication, it can be deeply fulfilling. Embracing relationship diversity allows us to better understand ourselves and others, creating space for more inclusive and supportive communities.